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Immortal Diamond: The Search for Our True Self

ISBN: 978-1-118-30359-7
288 pages
January 2013, Jossey-Bass
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Dissolve the distractions of ego to find our authentic selves in God

In his bestselling book Falling Upward, Richard Rohr talked about ego (or the False Self) and how it gets in the way of spiritual maturity. But if there's a False Self, is there also a True Self? What is it? How is it found? Why does it matter? And what does it have to do with the spiritual journey? This book likens True Self to a diamond, buried deep within us, formed under the intense pressure of our lives, that must be searched for, uncovered, separated from all the debris of ego that surrounds it. In a sense True Self must, like Jesus, be resurrected, and that process is not resuscitation but transformation.

  • Shows how to navigate spiritually difficult terrain with clear vision and tools to uncover our True Selves
  • Written by Father Richard Rohr, the bestselling author of Falling Upward
  • Examines the fundamental issues of who we are and helps us on our path of spiritual maturity

Immortal Diamond (whose title is taken from a line in a Gerard Manley Hopkins poem) explores the deepest questions of identity, spirituality, and meaning in Richard Rohr's inimitable style.

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Table of Contents

Invitation: The Immortal Diamond of the True Self vii

Preface xvii

1 What Is ‘‘The True Self’’? 1

2 What Is ‘‘The False Self’’? 27

3 What Dies and Who Lives? 59

4 The Knife Edge of Experience 67

5 Thou Art That 95

6 If It Is True, It Is True Everywhere 127

7 Enlightenment at Gunpoint 139

8 Intimate with Everything 159

9 Love Is Stronger Than Death 175

Epilogue 187

Appendix A The True Self and the False Self 189

Appendix B A Mosaic of Metaphors 193

Appendix C Watching at the Tomb: Attitudes for Prayer 199

Appendix D Head into Heart: ‘‘The Sacred Heart’’ 203

Appendix E Adam’s Breathing: Praying from the Clay 207

Appendix F Twelve Ways to Practice Resurrection Now 211

Notes 213

Bibliography 231

The Author 237

Index 239

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Author Information

Fr. Richard Rohr is a Franciscan priest of the New Mexico Province. He founded the Center for Action and Contemplation in Albuquerque, New Mexico, in 1986, where he presently serves as founding director. Richard is the author of more than twenty books, an internationally known speaker, and a regular contributing writer for Sojourners and Tikkun magazines and the CAC's quarterly journal, Radical Grace. He is the author of Falling Upward and Falling Upward: A Companion Journal.

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How well do we know ourselves? So many roles and identities shape individual lives that it's easy to be confused about what is authentically "us." Rohr, a Franciscan priest and founding director of the Center for Action and Contemplation in Albuquerque, N.Mex., leads a narrative excursion to the "True Self," the core of character that lies like a diamond buried within. Writing for secular seekers, the author claims that individuals need to allow the false self to fall away in order to get in touch with the true self, allowing it to breathe and flourish. Grasping onto the superficial identities of the false self, such as job, class, race, or accomplishments, can keep people from being the loving and generous conduits of the Divine that they are meant to be. God is always communicating with humans, but those who cling to ego and social position can’t hear these divine messages. The author makes clear that it is not easy to shed this falseness for truth in the inner life, but it is a spiritual path well worth the effort. (Jan.) (Publishers Weekly, February 2013)

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Press Release

March 11, 2013
Renowned Spiritual Teacher Richard Rohr Shows How to Unearth an Immortal Diamond: The True Self

 Renowned Spiritual Teacher Richard Rohr Shows

How to Unearth an Immortal Diamond: The True Self

Richard Rohr, one of the most influential spiritual teachers in the world, has often addressed the challenges of ego, or the False Self, in his work. Now, he turns his attention to the True Self. Taking its title from a Gerard Manley Hopkins poem, his new book Immortal Diamond: The Search Our True Self (Jossey-Bass, A Wiley Company, January 2013), explores the deepest questions of identity, spirituality and meaning.

The True Self is that part of you that knows who you are, and whose you are. Like a diamond, buried deep within, this authentic self must be searched for, uncovered, and separated from all the debris of ego that surrounds it. It must, like Jesus, be resurrected, and transformed.

Rohr builds the book around the theme of resurrection, the universal pattern of the undoing of death. For Christians, he says, “the Risen Christ is the standing icon of humanity in its final and full destiny.....a potent statement about what God is forever doing with the universe and with humanity. God appears to be resurrecting everything all the time.”

Yet humans prefer the status quo, rather than the unknown and scary future. We’re not comfortable with resurrection, Rohr says, “despite a yearly springtime, healing in our bodies, the ten thousand forms of newness in every life.” Any deep spiritual teaching must aim for this path of dying and rising.

The False Self —a term first suggested by Thomas Merton—is a mental and cultural construct that’s more bogus than bad. It’s the self we create to find our identity in the world, external and passing, while the True Self is who we are in God and is therefore eternal. Rohr seeks to help readers overcome four splits from reality that bar the way to uncovering True Self:

            •We split from our shadow self and pretend to be our idealized self.

            •We split our mind from our body and soul and live in our minds.

            •We split life from death and try to live our life without any “death.”

            •We split ourselves from other selves and try to live apart, superior and separate.

“Spirituality pure and simple is overcoming these four splits,” Rohr says. “Anything less than the death of the False Self is useless religion. The False Self must die for the True Self to live.”

Rohr illustrates how Jesus is the archetypal True Self, “divine and human held in one container.” The life and resurrection of Jesus point to the discovery of our own divine DNA. This, Rohr says, is the final meaning of being human. 

By focusing solely on the divinity of Jesus, Christianity pulled him out of the Trinity, losing its natural momentum, Rohr contends. “It killed what is the exciting inner experience and marginalized the mystics who really should be center stage. Jesus is the model and metaphor for all of creation that is being drawn into the flow of love.”

Rohr, a Franciscan priest for more than forty years, does not hold with atonement theology, which views the death of Jesus as a sacrifice required to reconcile God and humans. Franciscans have always held an alternative, yet still orthodox, view, he says: “For us, Jesus did not come to change the mind of God about humanity but to change the mind of humanity about God. Jesus death was not solving any cosmic problem whatsoever, but revealing to us our own human problem: that we fear, and we kill what we should love.”

The True Self is at its core, love itself. “Love is both who you are, and who you are becoming,” Rohr says. The meaning of the Resurrection is that love is stronger than death—as the popular slogan has it, “Love Wins!”  “Love is all that remains, love and life are finally the same thing,” Rohr writes.

Writing for secular seekers, thinkers, believers and nonbelievers alike, Rohr uses a three-pronged method: Scripture (all of the New Testament Gospel accounts, along with the letters of Paul and John, and the Acts of the Apostles), tradition, and inner experience. He is standing on the Judeo-Christian tradition. However, he notes, “I can no longer wait for or give false comfort to, the many Christians who are forever deepening their personal relationship with a very tiny American Jesus —who looks an awful lot like them.”


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