Living Like You Mean It: Use the Wisdom and Power of Your Emotions to Get the Life You Really Want
PART ONE: PREPARATION.
1. To Feel or Not to Feel.
2. How the Heck Did I Get This Way?
PART TWO: TAKING ACTION.
3. Step One: Becoming Aware of Your Feelings.
4. Step One, Continued: Becoming Aware of Your Defenses.
5. Step Two: Taming the Fear.
6. Step Three: Feeling It Through.
7. Step Four: Opening Up.
8. Putting It All Together.
Conclusion: Making a Choice.
Appendix: Seeking Professional Help.
""What a joy it is to read Dr. Ron Frederick’s Living Like You Mean It. Well informed, accessible and engaging, this wonderful book is full of powerful strategies that will enliven your soul, enrich your relationships, and help you have a more deeply meaningful life. I recommend it with enthusiasm!"" —John Bradshaw, NY Times bestselling author of Healing the Shame that Binds You
""With compelling insight into the way emotion shapes our lives, Living Like You Mean It invites us on a tremendously useful journey into the mind and brain and shows us how the day-to-day ways we defend against feeling our feelings keeps us from living the lives we really want. But no more! Through practical suggestions, compelling stories, and powerful insights, this book dishes up a readily accessible plan to free us from the prison of our own fear of feeling. Frederick is a liberating guide—and after joining him on this trek, you’ll be ready to feel fully alive!"" —Daniel J. Siegel, MD, director, the Mindsight Institute, and author of The Mindful Brain
""Brimming with heart and soul, and scientifically sound, Living Like You Mean It is a brilliant book for anyone wanting to get unstuck and live a happier, more fulfilling life."" —Marci Shimoff, NY Times bestselling author of Happy for No Reason
""Ron Frederick is a master therapist and a gifted teacher. With energy and passion, he guides the reader through the vibrant inner landscape of the emotions. The tools and insights he offers can help prevent depression and anxiety. Even more, they point the way toward a vital and engaged life—a life fully lived."" —Henry Emmons, MD, author of The Chemistry of Joy